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The Church of Our Lady of Vietnam: Its Architecture and Meaning In Vietnamese Culture

The Church of Our Lady of Vietnam: Its Architecture and Meaning In Vietnamese Culture

Table of Content
Foreword -- p. 1
About the Author -- p. 4
Introduction -- p. 5
I. TAM QUAN -- p. 6
II. MUOI COT - TEN COLUMNS ILl Worship God -- p. 9
II.2 Honor Parents -- p. 12
II.3 Love Life -- p. 14
II.4 Control Desire -- p. 15
II.5 Eliminate Greed -- P.16
II.6 Tame Your Tongue -- p. 18
III. THE SHRINE OF OUR LADY
III.1 The Well-- p. 20
III.2 The Boat -- p. 22
III.3 Grandma and the Child -- p. 23
IlI.4 Our Lady -- p. 23
IV. THE CHURCH
IV.1 The Square and Round Shapes -- p. 27
IV.2 The Curved Roof -- p. 29
IV.3 The Egg -- p. 30
IV.4 The Map of Vietnam -- p. 31
IV.5 The Cross -- p. 32
IV.6 Four Doors -- p. 33
IV.7 Five Steps -- p. 34

After Words
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Foreword

Father JP Minh Vu

To date the Fall of South Vietnam in 1975 has brought almost 1.5 millions Vietnamese to the US, and since then about 200,000 of them have chosen the greater Washington, DC area for their resettlement. After twenty five years of

hard work in their adjustments to a new life in the new land, their efforts have born fruit. Their accomplishments have been so significant that many Americans wondered about their successes. Father Peter Long and his community are an example of that story.

Father Peter Long is a very active and outgoing priest. Charming and fond of company, he is a wise man. That was the impression I had about him thirty years ago when I first met him in his church in La Nga, Vietnam, and this image has never changed. Fr Long came to the DC area in early 1976. Like any new immigrants to America, he had to learn many tough lessons of assimilation and adaptation, e.g. the language barrier, cultural differences, humility and hard work, but these problems could not subdue him. His meditation and prayer gave him many new inspirations in order to get on with life. Christmas of 1977 was the turning point that changed his life. The image of the Holy Family with Jesus lying in the manger inspired him. Jesus, Mary and Joseph were migrants. Joseph had to be industrious and improvised. Mary and Joseph lived their lives for Jesus and they trusted in God. Father Long has lived this lesson and taught it to his people, and most importantly the lesson of not giving up.

At the end of 1975 there were scarcely about 40 Vietnamese families in DC. In 1976 this number increased to 80. Father Long began to visit and built a network for ministry to these newcomers. They gathered at the Shrine of the Sacred Heart and later at St Camillus' Church in Silver Spring. Soon the number of families increased to 230 and they needed a place of their own for worship and cultural activities. Realizing the need of these new immigrants, Cardinal William W. Baum ordered the establishment of the Vietnamese Pastoral Mission and appointed Fr Long as head of the Mission on 21 September 1979.

This community continued to grow and became more organized with the grouping of families into zones. They formed 8 zones; each one has an elected leader. Soon other ministries were added into the community life for spiritual and social needs, such as the Legion of Mary, the Knights of Columbus, Religious Education and Vietnamese Language classes. These activities were held at parishioners' homes or borrowed facilities.

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In 1986, a new step was taken when they bought a property of 4 acres located at 11812 New Hampshire Ave. This became their Base of Operation and Father Long's new residence. On 8th April 1990, Cardinal James Hickey officially changed the Vietnamese Mission into the 135th Parish of the Archdiocese and appointed Fr Long as Pastor. The parish chose the name Our Lady of Vietnam, and the dream of a new church began to take shape on the same property that they had bought.

Within three years the parish built the foundation, the first level of the church. It cost 1.6 million dollars and the parishioners contributed most of that amount. On the dedication day, 28th August 1993, Cardinal Hickey said, "This building we bless today is an expression of your faith and of your deep Catholic cultural heritage, the true foundation is Jesus Christ. The Archdiocese is a mosaic of faith, drawn from many racial, ethnic and cultural heritages. This center will help you be a community of loving service to those in need. So many of you know how difficult it is to live in a new land..."

After six years of hard work in fund raising (1993-1999), Fr Long and his community of 650 families began, in December 1999, the next project - the upper level of the church, the main building. The cost for this project was over $3,000,000 and the contributions came from many outstanding efforts. First from the parishioners: the children gave up candies and ice cream, the youth did car-washes, the grown-ups sold raffle tickets, and pledged generous donations. Secondly, there are many friends from many parts of the country and around the world who contributed to this endeavor, including their Buddhist friends. Third, Fr Long also traveled to many cities asking for donations; he became affectionately known as the "Beggar Priest." Finally, people did not only supported this project with money but also in kind, e.g. free labor, materiel (painting, flooring, landscaping, etc.), and special church appointments. Most memorable of all among these gifts were the church bell, ceremonial drum and cymbal, and processional altar. All these things were made in Vietnam and given by Bao Dap Parish, Fr Long's former home, and the support of the archdioceses of Hue, Saigon and the diocese of Phat Diem. Generous friends also gifted most of the church's appointments such as the altar, pulpit, tabernacle, etc.

November 4th, 2000 is the Dedication Day of Our Lady of Vietnam Catholic Church, a happy and memorable day for Father Peter Long and the people of Our Lady of Vietnam Catholic Parish in the Archdiocese of Washington, DC. The parishioners chose Mother Mary as their patron. They also honor the 117 Vietnamese Martyrs who gave their lives for the faith in the past. The relics of thirty-three of them will be honored here. The dream of having their own church built with Vietnamese character is finally realized. The thoughts and attention given to the details represent a symbol of the Vietnamese culture and faith in the Archdiocese.

According Father Long, "This church is dedicated to the God of all of us. It is for you. It is the gift from my Vietnamese people for everyone. The Vietnamese have learned to make new their spirit over many troubles for thousands of years. I hope that everyone will feel welcome here and be renewed in body and spirit".

The first time I saw the church, my heart was so moved that tears were brimming in my eyes. It is the first church built in the US that has the Vietnamese style. The church in front of me is a proud display of the elegant yet firm Vietnamese spirit expressed through its architecture. Amidst many vivid reminders of the war in Washington DC - the Vietnam War Memorial and the talk of the town ­this church will stand as an invitation for a deeper reflection, a place to pray for reconciliation and healing of our memories and our past. This church also reflects the sacrifices and the thriving spirit of the parishioners and their pastor. Furthermore, the history of the Vietnam Catholic Church had Deacon Tran Luc of Phat Diem Diocese, who built the first Cathedral in Vietnamese style in 1898. Father Long is the first priest who builds the first Vietnamese style church in the United States. The realization of this church building significantly demonstrates this saying in a Vietnamese proverb: "A tree is nothing if it stands alone, when many trees are united they become forest and cover mountains",

I'd like to invite you to read this book in order to appreciate the Vietnamese culture as it is expressed through its architecture. Your visit to this church, the people and their pastor will help you experience their resilient spirit. I also believe that the whole thing about this church is a powerful demonstration of God's blessing and the work of human sacrifice and labor. It is a miracle! May you be inspired, blessed and find peace here.

I was honored when Father Long asked me to be the editor and translator of this commemorative edition of the book for the Dedication of Our Lady of Vietnam Catholic Church.

Father JP Minh Vu

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About the Author

Father Peter Long consulted with one of his friends, a Vietnamese scholar who lives in Vietnam and wished to keep his name anonymous. The two of them shared their visions of this new church. Through this in depth exchange, the scholar wrote this book in Vietnamese. This commemorative edition is to portray an abstract or general profile of its structure and symbolism from a Vietnamese perspective and not to present an exposition of Vietnamese theology for the author is not a theologian. Furthermore, the author hoped to explore the root of Vietnamese culture and tradition and wished to present to the Vietnamese people and Americans alike a virtual image of the Vietnamese heritage. This effort hopefully would facilitate the mutual understanding and acceptance between the two cultures - Vietnamese and American, and help the future Vietnamese generations in their understanding and appreciation of their heritage.

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Introduction
Our Lady of Vietnam is one of the most unique churches vying among many other attractions in the Washington DC area. One of the most important features of the church is in its Vietnamese pattern. The first design of the church came from a Vietnamese architect - Mr. Huy Nguyen, and an American architect - Mr. Frank Duane. Father Peter Long, pastor of this parish community, approved the blueprints, and they were endorsed by the Washington DC Archdiocese. The building project cannot be completed without significant contributions of: Warren Miller, Bill Amberman, Lee Clark and associates of Roy Kirby & Sons, Inc.; Joe Froio, Richard DeStwolinski of the Archdiocese of Washington; the architects: Sam French, Duane, Cahill, Mullineaux and Mullineaux P.A.; various contractors and others.

The church's location forms a triangle with the White House and the House of Representatives. The church has a square shape with three levels and is 81 feet high. Its has a total usage space of 20,000 square feet and rests on 4 acres.

At first sight of the church, Westerners will recognize its obvious Oriental structure, but they may not notice the subtle difference in the Vietnamese details. The following pages explore in depth the meanings of these special points from a Vietnamese Catholic perspective.

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I. TAM QUAN

To enter into the church you will pass through "Tam Quan" or the "Triple Gateway". It is represented through the main entrance to the church's property and the three doors of the church. The passing through these gates reminds us that we leave behind the hustle and bustle of life to meet God, the Loving Father. He has been longing for his children to return after squandering our lives away, toiling in the mundane world. He is ready to care for our souls and ultimately our eternal life.

"Tam Quan" is an important concept in Vietnamese living philosophy. They are the symbols of the three realms of life - Heaven, Humanity and Earth. These three gates are the basic summary of our human experiences. As we enter through these gates we contemplate the meaning of life.

The main gate, and the innermost door of the church, represent Heaven. The sacred space of the church reminds us of Heaven or God. Oriental philosophy speaks of God in this way: "Heaven in its motion gives the idea of strength, directs the great beginnings of things"l. The heavenly motions create night and day, and four seasons. Yesterday, today and tomorrow remind us of the unchanging and unconditional love of God.

Only God has this great and originating power. The creation of all matter and things, the emergence of living creatures of all classes, all these results came from the" originating power" of God. It's the prime constituent, the so called "life spirit" that God placed in the genesis and propagation of each living creature. This life spirit is at work with other universal formulas like harmony, self­preservation, growth and development, etc., so that all creatures will reach their full potential and beauty that God has intended. This originating power not only limits the physical arena that is extended to the human gene and DNA, but it also encompasses human dignity, personality and character. By entering this gate, you are reminded of the awesome power of God.

The gate on the right, and the middle door of the church, stand for the Earth. The Earth offers us the sustaining power. The stratigraphy of earth matter forms the terra firma to uphold all living creatures, from the smallest to the largest, the crawling and creeping to the flying, prince and pauper, the good and the bad. The Earth does not reject anyone.

The hospitable and benevolent Earth is like a mother's womb. Her caring and sensitive nature attends to all our needs. Her birthing, transforming and nurturing efforts provide daily around the clock care for all creatures. Heaven

1 The Khien Hexagram in I Ching [One of the 5 Chinese Classics: I Ching, Shih Ching, Shu Ching, Li Chi, and Ch'un Ch'iu; (and 4 Books: see footnote #13 on page 14).

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and Earth harmoniously work together with time and seasons to bring about maturity, fruition and perfection. Everything has its time and season, otherwise the crops cannot grow and bear fruit. This notion also reminds us that we must go to church on time and often.

Heaven and Earth are two separate entities but work together for the creation of all. The creation story in the Bible mentioned God, who used clay to fashion the first human being, underlines the importance of the Earth in God's plan. The living spirit of Heaven, the materials of the Earth are essential to all creatures. Heaven or the Father, and Earth or the Mother, are the closest images that we can identify and experience in our life and from here we fathom the divine mystery. Once we acknowledge that the whole of God's creation and the human race come from this mystery then the passing through these gates helps us to recognize our human condition and our position in God's creation.

The first or the outer gate symbolizes Humanity. The earthling is superior to all living creatures. With our body and soul we stand in both of these worlds: Heaven and Earth, the visible and invisible, the finite and infinite. Our life has three dimensions: the earthly or material, the intellectual or knowledge, and the soul or spirituality.

We can immediately identify with our material world. It's our body, our home, our possessions and environment. Our past, present and projected futures, along with our earthly materials, are important to the making of who we are. We are, however, called to rise above the material world. The command to master the material world2, the naming of creatures3 and the advice from Proverbs4 are the admonitions of how we should use the material world.

We master the material world through the intellect. The activities of the mind help us perceive in our thinking, reasoning, dreaming, and remembering. They in turn give us the ability to understand, feel, evaluate, reflect and create.

Our spirituality is the highest form of human activity. Living in a world filled with temptations of the flesh, fame and greed, we can be easily contaminated and influenced to do wrong. Thanks to God we have this special faculty of spirituality to help us rise above these traps and find our way home to our ultimate destiny.

Our material world, intellect, and spirituality are but one human experience. We must acknowledge them in order to be real with our true self. To deny any of these realities is to deceive ourselves. Our intellect presents us as who we are, while our spirituality manifests the way we live. This faculty helps us relate to

2 Genesis 1:28

3 Genesis 2:19-20a

4 Proverbs 17:1-15

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what is invisible, interact with others, and transcend to our higher realm of existence5.

As Christians, we believe that Man is the last of God's creation and is slightly less than a god6. With the abilities of the intellect and spirituality, we have the mission to love and worship God on behalf of all creation because the animalistic world only seeks to satisfy itself. We are not limited to the influence of "eros" (love in the flesh) but we are able to reach the next level of love that is "agape", that is brotherly-sisterly love and Christian love. This passion enables us to love our family, friends, school, church and country. In this sense Man is not only a singular entity but also is a part of a community. God is present in these communities and journeys with us. The love of God and of our neighbor is rooted in this principle. Saint John wrote: "Beloved, let us love one another; for love is of God, and he who loves is born of God and knows God. He who does not love does not know God; for God is love"7. God loves everything He has created8. He wants to save us from death in sin9, give us life, restore us to wholeness, and elevate us back to Him1O, all through Jesus Christ, the New Man and Son of God. In Christ, mankind may become one for the glory of Godll.

Humanity in Tam Quan also reminds us of special persons that we remember. They are called with the title "Nhan Hoang" or Royal People. They are not necessarily people born of a royal parentage like Adam-Eve, Hung Vuong, or George Washington... but they are all those who lived a heroic life. They are people of great virtues whose contributions were significant to society. They were the fathers of our nation and patriots. They were great scientists, teachers and philosophers. They may be named or unnamed, but they have left a legacy for us to follow. They may not be saints, but their lives may be legends. We remember them with love and admiration so that we may imitate their examples and promote their stories for future generations.

Tam Quan is the Oriental gateway structure. It is supported by four columns that stand for four seasons in time and four directions in space. Tam Quan has three roofs, and the entryways are varied. These details remind us that this place welcomes people from all walks of life, genders and races. We arrive at all times and seasons of life. We come as individuals or community. We enter as humanity who represents all of God's creation but we consciously walk each step of our lives in close relationship with Heaven and Earth.

5 Oriental Customs, The Origin of Ancient Vietnamese Culture, p. 21-26 (in Vietnamese) [indicates the Vietnamese source and there is no equivalent to English version of the book]

6 Psalm 8:5-6

71 John 4:7-8

8 Wisdom 11:21-26

9 Ephesians 2:1-10

10 Jeremiah 31:1-9

11 John 17:21-26

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II. MUOI COT - TEN COLUMNS

Leaving behind all the worries and concerns of the mundane world, we pass through Tam Quan to find the source of strength, comfort and healing for all of us. Inside the church we see ten columns that represent the Ten Commandments. They guide us for this life journey.

Moses presented God's Law and Jesus perfected those laws with the summary of the love of God and neighbor. In Vietnamese culture there are Six Rules of Being Human. These rules are in essence not far from the Ten Commandments:

Ten Commandments

1. Worship God

2. Do not take His name in vain

3. Keep the Sabbath

4. Honor Parents

5. Thou shall not kill

6. Thou shall not commit adultery

7. Thou shall not steal

8. Thou shall not give false witness

9. Thou shall not covet thy neighbors' wife

10. Thou shall not covet thy neighbors' goods

Six Rules of Being Human

1. Worship God (1,2 and 3)

2. Honor Parents

3. Love Life

4. Control Desire

5. Eliminate Greed

6. Tame Your Tongue

11.1 Worship God

The first three of the Ten Commandments focus on God and the worship practice emphasizes on the One and only true God. Meanwhile, the Vietnamese popular culture presents a unique form of expression of their belief that sometimes is mistakenly categorized by Westerners as pantheistic practice. It's like the perception that many Protestants judge the Catholics when they believe mistakenly that Catholics worship their saints like God. Saints are venerated, only God is worshipped.

In a Vietnamese village or town we see many Shrines that coexist among Temples. The small Shrines by the roadside, in proximity to the town entrance, next to the waterway, or near a Banyan tree, are the memorials for the known or unknown souls who suffered an untimely end or accidental death. They have no home to return to and no relative to pay them respect or offer remembrance. The common folk built these monuments to honor them so that these forgotten souls will not bother them. The Village or Town Temples are the cenotaphs or memorials for the Village or Town Royals who are like the town's patron or matron saints. Every year on their feast day, the townspeople celebrate their memorials here and pray for peace and prosperity for the village. This facility is also the meeting place for the town officers. Here they have their official meetings, make formal announcements, collect and register vital data, receive

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and distribute goods to support those in need. Shrines or Temples are not the place to worship God. They are the reminders of God.

The Vietnamese popular tradition explicitly or implicitly acknowledges the existence of a Supreme Being that is expressed through these vernacular verses:

"What God creates, God will nourish"

"Dear Holy God, Rain upon us To quench our thirst Water the fields Grant us good yields And straw to cook. . . "

"Dear Holy God Shine upon us So kids can play Ladies catch fleas And me to work..."

"Break the belt of this machine, Dear God Arrest the grimkr, halt the pump Make them stop till the cows come home So that the youth have time to court..."

These are the songs that are circulated in the field or in the factory. They are not just for fun or to improve productivity. They are neither philosophical nor theological treatises. They are just a kind of common expression that people at large believe. God creates and takes care of all things. He has control of the whole universe.

All creation was made in the natural order. However, when God created Man he made an exception when he infused into him His Spirit. Man was given God's Spirit so that he can share in the life of God and be raised above all living creatures. Nguyen Du, a renowned Vietnamese poet of the 18th century, who ranks with Shakespeare, reaffirmed that: "The body is but the flesh, beyond that is more important, it's the spirit"12.

God nourishes all things in their natural environment. Vegetation extracts nutrients from the earth and flows them to the leaves. They manufacture their own food and give off oxygen in the process of photosynthesis. This represents the primary source of food for animals and provides oxygen for the earth's atmosphere. The animals have nervous systems, sense organs, and specialized modes of locomotion, and are adapted for securing, ingesting, and digesting food. Each species has their unique foods and ways of life. The Vietnamese have

12 Kieu story, verse 116 (in Vietnamese

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this maxim: "God creates the elephants, God will make sure there's enough grass for their food. "

Concerning Man, God said: "Not by bread alone shall man live..." So if we only focus on food and drinks, and try to satisfy only the physical needs we will neglect spirituality, forget virtues and will end up destroying one another just for food. If the big fish eats the little fish, then the little ones will die first, and some day the big fish will also die because there won't be any little fish.

A Vietnamese proverb has the saying that, "God has his eyes" to express the belief that God sees everything and directs the universe with justice and equality. He does not oppress, threaten, or dominate anyone. He instead "placed his will in the human heart", and He expects that man will search his own heart to find the truth and love, to do what is just and fair. To disregard these things is to deny God or to declare God is dead. Can anyone live this way forever?

God does not force anyone to worship Him. The way Man comes to God depicts how he sees Him. People in Central and South Vietnam make altars for God in a special way. They set up a pole as high as eye level, and place a square surface made of wood or stone on top. The altar is set up outside in the open, without a roof or elaborate decoration. The altar faces the front entrance of the house. The setting means God is God. He is not to be narrowed in the confinement of the home, but all embracing. The altar has no roof because nothing can be hidden, even in our most private acts or inmost thoughts. God only requires a sincere heart and clear conscience, and only some simple offerings such as an incense bowl, a cup and a small flower vase. The head of the household fills the cup with water or rice wine, offers incense toward heaven and earth in the morning and evening. At the beginning of the month and again at mid month, in times of need and on special occasions people will bring flowers just for the occasion. Simplicity and sincerity are the keys. That's all God wants.

Ancient Vietnamese kings worshipped God in the New Year. They prayed on behalf of the whole nation. On New Year's Eve, the king would look for the most opportune day in the first three days of the New Year for the worship of God. The king then would go to God's altar, the higher elevation in the Southern Field from the palace. After having gone through a day of fasting and cleansing and asking for the descent of God, he prays for a good harvest and peace for the nation. The king does this repeatedly for seven days. He also hosts a party for the people that lasts for ten days. This is the way the king blesses his people. Only after these activities would the king consult the calendar to declare the best day for the grand opening of his court and for other officials to call on him. Other lesser ranking offices will follow suit for official business. Toward the middle of the month the king would allow the people to call on him. The most talented people would perform for the king and offer the king good wishes.

The Vietnamese people, from kings to paupers, believed in and prayed to God. Their worship reflected a belief based not on fear but on the simplicity of the

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heart. This practice has been a long-standing tradition and has been passed on to the present generation.

II.2 Honor Parents

The Vietnamese people love their parents. "Dao Hieu" is a special terminology to depict those who do not specify their religious affiliation (Buddhist, Catholic, or Protestant...). Literally "Dao" is "The Way", but there is no equivalent word for "Hieu". The best translation would be "filial piety". It means the real expression of the utmost love, honor and respect that children can give to their parents, grandparents and higher parentage. This devotion is not given only when the parents are alive but also when they have passed away. They are remembered in special days such as the New Year, on the anniversary of their deaths, and on other feast days.

The Vietnamese belief emphasizes the immortality of the soul and consequently people set up altars in their homes for ancestry veneration. Before this altar, the wedding ceremony is celebrated, intercessory prayers are presented, and children consider that their ancestors' spirits are there with them. In daily life they should be mindful of their ancestors' spirits and conduct their lives in such a way that is pleasing to them.

This devotion is not a superstitious belief. It's an expression of respect, a kind of grateful remembrance of their sacrifice for the children, a fulfillment of the promise to carryon the legacy of their lives and works, and a manifestation of obedience to their parents' wishes. "Hieu" is the guiding light for their personal and interpersonal life, inner peace for earthly life and life in the next world.

"Hieu" is not only for the souls of the dead but also for the living. A Vietnamese maxim ridicules those who neglect their parents while they are still alive, saying:

"Care for your parents while they last Useless to feed them after they're dead"

The above phrase emphasizes how important is the loving care that children show to their parents. It's better to do it in the here and now than in the hereafter. When Tu Zu asked the great master to teach him about "Hieu", Confucius said: "When you take care of your parents people say that you have 'Hieu'. Think this way, you can take care of your animals, but the way you care for your parents must rise above that. Otherwise I fear that you will show them your disrespect"13. The love and respect children give to their parents must come from the heart. A Vietnamese maxim says:

13 Analects 2,7 [One of the 4 Books: Higher (or Greater) Learning, Chung Yung, Analects,

and Mencius , that attributed to Confucius (551-479 BCE)]

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"How immeasurable is the loftiness of fatherhood

How relentless is the depth of mother's love

Respect and love them with your utmost

Heed the call of'Hieu' is the way of being children."

This maxim contains two requirements: one for parents and the other for children.

Vietnamese tradition expects that parents must raise their children to adolescence and ensure that they became successful in life. It's truly a blessing if their achievements surpass those of their parents. The successes of the children will ensure the parents' satisfaction. Parents continue to follow up with their children, teaching them the ways of life until their death, even when the children are already well established in life. Vietnamese history recalls the story of King Tu Duc and his Mother, Queen Tu Du or Madame Pham Thi Hang. The Queen is a true mother. She always cares for her children but never interferes with the king's official business. One day, the king found some free time and he decided to go hunting in the Thuan Truc forest. A heavy torrential rain came unexpectedly and it delayed his return. The queen was so troubled and she sent the king's exec, Nguyen Tri Phuong, to look for him. The exec located the king who was having a rough time with high water and assisted him. By nightfall the king arrived at the Royal Port and immediately he went to the queen's quarters to present himself. The queen turned her back toward him and silently placed a bamboo rod on the sofa. The king immediately understood the hint; he lay down and put the rod on his back. After a long while the queen removed the rod and said, "Your impulsive pleasures have caused hardship on your subordinates; remember to reward them properly. I forgive you now, come back to see me tomorrow." 14

Vietnamese culture considers the parent-child relationship as mutual and interdependent as it is described in this proverb: "Children depend on their parents; the old rely on their young". This kind of relationship does not necessarily take away one's self-control and individual responsibility but it is the foundation for a stronger communal life. Each person becomes more aware of his or her relationship with one another, and in turn each one is led to fulfill his or her duty in mutual love and support. In this way of life, family becomes the foundation for the society, the Church and the whole world. Each family has its own worries and concerns, but members also share in its success and happiness and actively contribute to its wellbeing

In a family "Hieu" represents the vertical relationship while "De" is the horizontal line (the word "De" is the composition of the words 'younger brother' and 'respect'). This kind of relationship emphasizes both brotherly and sisterly love and responsibility. It is described the proverb:

14 Tran Trong Kim , A brief History of Vietnam

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"One falls, the other lifts"

and the maxim:

"Brotherhood is likE the fingers and the hand, nothing can separate them"

"Hieu-De" comes from a blood relationship. It is both God's law and Vietnamese tradition upon which family-ancestry relationship is built. The annual Memorial Feast is the manifestation of this relationship. This is the time for family members to gather for prayers in memory of the deceased, to exchange news and show support. Also, on this occasion, family issues are discussed and solved, kinsfolk recognize one another, and the young and the old share their dreams and successes. Each member sees more clearly that they belong to a special ancestry, and consequently would enhance their family fame and influence, and reaffirm their efforts in life.

II.3 Love Life

Human life is invaluable. God used the earth and fashioned man. He did not create man from nothing. He spoke and everything came into existence. In order to create man, He did this with intention and purpose. He spent time to think and used clay to form man after his image, then He breathed into man's nostril and gave him life15. God did not make death, and He does not delight in the death of the living16. God gave man the Holy Spirit and made man its temple through baptism. At the end of time, God will transform the mortal body and unite it with the soul. The body and the soul will live with Him among the angels and saints.

Vietnamese culture honors man as superior to all in the material world and all living creatures. Many proverbs expressed this point: "A man is worth ten times his possessions", or "When you're alive, you're worth a hill of gold; when you die, nothing is your worth," and" Cover yourself with your possessions. No one uses himself to cover his possessions".

Since human life is so important, nothing can be compared with its value. The immortality of human spirit is a part of this belief; consequently, the end of life is sacred, and no one has the right to terminate life before its time. Christian belief and Vietnamese culture are together on this point. When the commandment says: "Thou shall not kill," in Vietnamese it means one must love life, and hate killing even in old age or terminal illness.

Each human life has a purpose. One cannot kill oneself or ask others to do it for whatever reason, even in the case of the baby in its mother's womb. If the animals know how to protect and care for their young until they learn to be self­efficient, how can a mother give up the child of her womb? If civil and criminal laws protect human life, then a baby in the womb also has the right to life.

15 Genesis 1:1-31; 2:1-2 16 Wisdom 1:13-15

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Abortion is a crime against human life on behalf of selfishness and human pleasure. Human rights, without loving life, are meaningless!

One must protect human life. "Thou shall not kill" implies each individual or a group, an embryo or an old person, is forbidden to do it out in the open or in secret. To use harmful substances or engage in dangerous activities is to kill slowly in an act of self-destruction. "Do you not know that you are God's temple and that God's Spirit dwells in you? If anyone destroys God's temple, God will destroy him. For God's temple is holy, and you are that temple17.

The principle of loving life has some exceptions in the case of death for a higher cause. Many heroically ended their lives for the nation, humanity or human development and for the one(s) they love. This is an act of courage, not foolishness18. Christian history has many saints who died for the faith. Vietnamese Catholic heritage also has 117 martyrs who were made saints for their heroic death. But before the introduction of Christian values into Vietnam, death by suicide was acceptable. There were many famous Vietnamese individuals who accepted death for honor: General Hoang Dieu committed suicide when he failed to protect the royal city, Special Envoy Phan Thanh Gian killed himself after his unsuccessful diplomatic effort, etc. Vietnamese history remembered them as heroes who gave up their lives in exchange for their integrity and honor. These were the exceptions; otherwise they were people who normally honored life.

In case of war and conflict, Vietnamese philosophy abhors war based on hatred and personal gain. To fight for the nation, against injustice and oppression, for the poor, and to safeguard peace are the noble goals. Those who avoid this fight are cowards. Christian values honor those who risk their lives for others. Jesus strongly recommended those who out of compassion did not look the other way19, and reprimanded the heartless Pharisees2o.

To respect all life and to live with honor are the principles of loving life. This is the new law that Jesus gave at the Last Supper21. The one who loves life is gentle in words and in deed.

11.4 Control Desire

God had something to do with love. In Genesis 2, He gave Adam his wife. Adam was so happy to see Eve, he was grateful for having a life-long partner. God was also satisfied and He rested because He saw the beautiful success of His creation. They brought Him joy.

171 Corinthians 3:16-17

182 Maccabee 6-7; Luke 9:22-26; John 15:13 19 Luke 10:29-37

20 Matthew 23

21 John 13:34-35

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"One Yin - One Yang is the only way"22, authentic Asian philosophy promotes one man and one wife. "Hard and soft intercourse to produce life"23, man and woman. attracted to one another to procreate and develop. Human sexual intercourse is a natural need. Eros in itself is normal; it's neither good nor bad. Rightful Eros means to have intercourse with the right person, at the right time and in the right way. This is good and just. Evil Eros is bad and sinful.

"Truat Duc" means to control desire. Human desire is limitless, the more one has the more one wants. The wanting of something new and different constantly feeds man's desire. This libido is always active as long as we live. If it were left without restraint or direction, it would take over our human will. One must be attentive to this human tendency and keep it under control so that when the true test comes, one may have a chance to overcome it. This is the courage of great men and women throughout the ages.

A Vietnamese proverb states that: "Man's spirit has often fallen short in the girls' world". This wisdom has repeatedly been proven correct. David had many wives and concubines but still succumbed to the fatal attraction of Bathsheba and sent Uriah, her husband, to his death24.

"Thou shall not commit adultery" is a great commandment. It protects family integrity, safeguards marriage, and keeps children's life undisturbed. A mandate in the Old Testament made it stronger: "If a man commits adultery with the wife of his neighbor, both the adulterer and the adulteress shall be put to death25.

The above sentences forbid the act of adultery but the thought of it is also harmful. David first committed adultery in thought when he saw Bathsheba bathing and this thought led him to action. Jesus clearly taught about this: "I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lust has already committed adultery with her in his heart"26. This teaching indicates that sexual relation is reserved for marriage only; other than that it's adultery in thought.

11.5 Eliminate Greed

The Seventh Commandment (Thou shall not steal) and the Tenth (Thou shall not covet thy'neighbor's goods) imply fairness and forbid stealing or taking what is not yours. They are in accord with the two words J/Liem" and J/Si" in Asian traditional virtues.

22 Thuong Truyen 5:1 (in Vietnamese) 23 Thuong Truyen 2:2 (in Vietnamese) 242 Samuel 11

25 Levi 20:10

26 Mathew 5:28

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"Liem" is righteousness and honesty, knowing the truth and error, the meaning of gain and loss. and what to take and what to leave behind. In terms of fairness, it is to take in what you earn through hard work and not by any illegal means; not to appropriate any property that belongs to someone else or to the public, even if these things were offered. In business transactions, it is to engage in equitable exchange, not to accept contraband or counterfeited goods, nor to give or accept bribe. In morality, it is not to induce or compel someone to take his/her spouse (The Ninth Commandment also forbids it).

"Si" is shame and guilt, a self-criticism when one engages in any immoral act. Without "Liem" one can take anything, and in the absence of "Si" one can do anything. "Liem Si" is an inherent ability that makes a person rise above his or her animalistic behavior, a minimum requirement of being human before reaching the law of love.

God's law guides mankind in the disposal of one's possessions according to His plan of creation. It also encourages man to avoid injustice. Genesis chapters 1 and 2 teach that God gave us life and the ability for procreation. He also granted us the power to master the earth, sky and sea for survivability. This faculty was corrupted with the Fall and people became selfish, greedy and avaricious..

Consequently God gave us His Law to help us live and act in a way befitting his children. He carved his Law in stone27, pronounced His moral rightness toward one's neighbors28, and fair treahnent toward the poor29, and render to Caesar what is Caesar's30. The worship of God requires living one's life in justice31. God punishes injustice and selfishness32, and He sees everything33: God defends the rights of the poor34. Jesus proposed this question "Will not God grant justice to his chosen ones who cry to him day and night?"35. Saint Paul commanded that a believer must rise above any injustice36 and Saint James protested against richness and injustice37. .

The story of Lazarus and the rich man38 presents us with these questions: Why did that rich man go to hell after his death? There was no mention of his sins except the fact that he loved to wine and dine while he neglected poor Lazarus who was begging by his door. Isn't it true that selfishness could lead one to hell?

27 Exodus 20:1-17

28 Levi 19:1-2, 11-18

29 Exodus 22

30 Matthew 22:15-22; Mark 1;2:13-17; Luke 20:20-26 31 Jeremiah 7; Amos 5:14-15, 21-24

32 Amos 6

33 Amos 8:4-7

34 Psalm 71

35 Luke 18:1-8

361Corinthians 6:1-11

37 James 4:2-3, 5:1-4

38 Luke 16:19-31

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Ownership is an inherent human right for security and human development but its exploitation is prohibited. Properties that belong to others or to the public are to be strictly observed. Damages caused to private or public properties must be replaced and reimbursed. One must even to go to confession and ask for forgiveness for this sin. It shall not be forgiven without compensation or restitution39.

God's law forbids the taking of and lusting over your neighbors' goods. To view them with envy is also prohibited: "You shall not covet your neighbor's house; you shall not covet your neighbor's wife, nor male or female slave, or ox, or donkey, or anything that belongs to your neighbor"4O.

11.6 Tame Your Tongue

The story in Genesis 3 indicated that the deceptive words of the serpent defeated the mind and heart of Eve. With these few words all the beauty of God's creation was destroyed.

Among all creatures only the human race has the language ability to express the awesome world of feeling and thinking. Words transmit knowledge, sentiments, comfort, constructive or destructive criticism. They can bring either trouble or solution. "The tongue is a small member, yet it boasts of great exploits. How great a forest is set ablaze by a small fire! ... With it we bless the Lord and Father, and with it we curse those who are made in the likeness of God. From the same mouth comes blessing and cursing. My brothers and sisters, this ought not to be so. Does a spring pour forth from the same opening both fresh and brackish water?"41.

God's law forbids lying. A false statement that comes from misinformation is not a lie. It is a lie when it is deliberately intended to misinform others. A lie is a lie when one does not tell the truth because of fear or for the purpose of avoidance of responsibility. People often use lies to cause trouble for others or to .make a better impression of themselves to someone else.
"Taming one's tongue" is the core of self-discipline and a very important Asian virtue. It requires one to be true to oneself and to others. To be truthful to oneself is an internal process of the self in one's thinking, searching for the truth and living it. It is the first task in the training of human behavior. Words are the means for a person to express himself or herself. A person - after mastering this task - can effectively dialogue, lecture and write. If one possesses the truth, one can influence others to make a better community. "Once being asked 'Why does the art of self-discipline emphasize more on the correction of words than

39 Nehemiah 5

40 Exodus 20:17

41 James 3:5-11

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behavior?' Chu Hi said: 'A person's truthfulness is based on his or her words. People are often careless in their expression and make mistakes through their

verbage. If the word of a person is truthful, then he can be trusted. A trustworthy person will manifest himself or herself through words. Carelessness in words often implies negligence and unreliability. Trustworthiness is the end and the taming of tongue is the mean" 42.

When a person makes an official statement of the truth in public or in court, he or she places his or her left hand on the Bible and raises the other hand toward heaven. This is an oath. The violation of an oath is a breach of promise and an evasion of duty. The damages this act causes might require a tough penalty. In the eyes of God the oath-breaker is a liar and betrayer. He or she disregards God. Jesus teaches: "You shall not swear falsely... Let your words be 'Yes, Yes' or 'No, No'; anything more than this comes from the evil one"43.

The Ten Commandments are the Ten Pillars and Rules for our life's journey. They surround us to help us walk in the way, prevent us from pitfalls and save us from eternal death.

42 Iching

43 Mathew 5:33-37

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III. THE SHRINE OF OUR LADY

Our Lady stands above the boat. Below is a Vietnamese old lady holding her grandchild, both covering themselves with a blanket to protect them from the elements and there is water underneath. These images symbolize the sacred journey of faith that many Vietnamese went through to come to this country.

Our Lady helps them to repent and come to God. They want to follow her example of faith in their lives.

Our Lady stands before the entrance of the church as she stands before Bethlehem, at Golgotha and in the Upper Room of the Last Supper. She is present here as she was at La Vang, Tra Kieu, Lourdes, Fatima and Medjugorje. She invites each and everyone of her children to meet her Son and to enter into a relationship with Him. There is but one h'ue God, and there is also only one

Mother Mary, full of grace and Mother of God. She is also the Mother of the Church yesterday, today and forever. She was at Nazareth, and she is here at Our Lady Queen of Vietnam and everywhere in the world. Her assumption to heaven gave her the crown of victory and time and space cannot limit her presence. She silently guides her children to this day and asks everyone to welcome Her Son.

IlL 1 The Well

We leave behind the mundane world in order to enter the sacred space, the sanctuary. The Ten Pillars representing the Ten Commandments enlighten us in our examination of conscience. Now we reach the water of cleansing and it helps us to reconcile with God and with one another. The well reminds us of the baptismal font. Have we forgotten our first renunciation of Satan, sin and all the glamours of evil? How well have we fulfilled the promise that we believe in God? Have we kept our lighted candles, which we received at baptism, burning bright in our environment or kept them hidden away? If our baptismal garment, the white dress, is stained by sin we must cleanse it, we must confess. No matter when and where we were baptized we received "One Lord, one faith, one baptism, one God and Father of all, who is above all and through all and in a1l44. All of us, through baptism, were buried with Jesus in baptism. We were also raised with Him through faith in the power of God, who raised Him from the dead. And when we were dead in trespasses and the uncircumcision of our flesh, God made us alive together with Him, when He forgave us all our trespasses45.

The baptismal font is our place of rebirth. In the conversation with Nicodemus46 Jesus did not say that it is a procedure but it's a necessary condition to enter the

44 Ephesians 4:5-6

45 Colossians 2:12-13

46 John 5

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Kingdom of Heaven. We must be reborn in order to live a new life, a spiritual life. From here we continue to grow and be mature in spirit. Our spiritual being, like the physical one, must also grow.

Saint Paul highlights it in this way: "Do you not know that all of us who have been baptized into Christ Jesus were baptized into his death? Therefore we have been buried with him by baptism into death, so that, just as Christ was raised from the dead by the glory of the Father, so we too might walk in newness of life47.

To receive baptism is to be immersed in the mystery of the death and resurrection of Christ. It is to inherit the saving grace. Jesus not only suffered humiliation, endured the Cross and died, He also triumphantly rose from the dead. Death-Resurrection is the most unique transformation process of the Paschal mystery. Jesus only died and rose once, and believers also receive baptism only once.

Baptism is not magic. It is a sacrament in which Jesus is present and acts. He was resurrected and is not restricted to the confinement of time and space. In the sacraments, believers enter into a sacred encounter with Him and are united with Him. The outward sacramental signs, in and of themselves, do not give us grace. But Jesus uses words, things and symbols to touch us through our senses, beliefs, feelings and desire. He is the one who gives us grace. He is our Savior.

The baptismal font reminds us of the Village Well in the old Vietnamese tradition. Water sustains us and nourishes all living creatures. Without water there is no life. In ancient times, the elders assessed the water source in the ground before establishing a village. If the source was plentiful, the ground was chosen for the settlement. Wherever there is a well there is a village. People can move a village but not a well.

There is a special character of well water in its dispensing power. The well will not be emptied out. No one can fill it up, but water must be drawn out from it in order to keep the well active. The water is free. Those who need it just come and draw from it. The well is always there; it does not mind whether or not you come. It does not call for you, it does not reject you. It is simply there for a purpose, i.e., to provide water for everyone. The same is true of God's grace: if you do not come and throw in the bucket and pull it up, you will not have the water for drinking and cleansing.

Well water is sweet and pure; that is its character. You will experience its sweetness when you drink, and its cleansing power when you wash. Fresh and pure is the quality that well water gives to sustain living things. Water is also humble; it will run into the lowest place. This is also the quality of those who
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serve God and His people48. Water is always consistent. It runs constantly. Raindrops stay together and form into a stream, river and ocean. Until it reaches the plain, water continues to flow. It travels through mountains and valleys, thick forests and dangerous cliffs, water still maintains its quality. It is humble and nurturing.

Well water has its sources and these sources connect witl1 one another, with rivers and streams and with other subterranean reservoirs. The well must be cleaned periodically; if not the mud would settle in and it would no longer be useable. It is the same with humanity. Our hearts and minds can stagnate over time. Without cleansing through self-discipline, we will become dry and useless. We are born not only for the purpose of enjoying life but also to contribute to the human race. If we do not dispense our share, we are no longer good for anything. We become the well, which is filled with mud, and render ourselves useless. The intrinsic value of the well is in its production of fresh, pure water.

III.2 The Boat

The image of a ship sailing on open seas has been the symbol of the Church on earth since the Counter Reformation period. The Church-Ship, in her small and frail structure over rough waters, is a humble reminder of her struggle in the journey of life. At any point in time she could face danger. After 2000 years she is still sailing strong despite many storms. Our Lord's promise that He is with the Church until the end has been the power behind her survival till this day. The story of Jesus calming the storm49 recalled how many times throughout history the Church called out to her Lord for deliverance. Our belief in Him, demonstrated through prayer, has saved us from heresies, oppressions, and internal conflicts. The Church continues to sail on through the leadership of her captain, St Peter and His Successors, and the shipmates' cooperation - Her Faithful.

A boat over water is also the image of each individual in the sea of life. Each person, from birth to. death, has to endure many rough times. Holding on to the rudder and guiding the ship on the right course is everyone's task. One must have a goal in life and must strive to achieve it. The Vietnamese call this effort "Lap Chi"; it is a process of forming a goal in life and applying on_:s will power to master ones life.

The boat is also the symbol of the Vietnamese refugees who struggled on the South China Sea and now enjoy their new life in the United States. Throughout the last 25 years they have proven their strong faith in God expressed through prayer; their hard-work to overcome the obstacles of language, culture and way of life as they continue to journey on. .

48 Matthew 20:25-27; Luke 14:8-11

49 Mathew 8:23-26; Mark 4:35-40; Luke 8:22-25

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III.3 Grandma and the Child on the Boat

This image is the true description of many Vietnamese. The great exodus from Vietnam (1975-1990) had claimed many lives at sea, by the guns of Communist patrol boats or by pirates. Only a small percentage of people arrived safely.

"Grandma and the child" is a description of the heroic sacrifices of the Vietnamese Mother. She has been giving her life away to care for her husband and her children. And at this stage she should retire and enjoy life, but the circumstance of life require her to give of herself again - this time for her grandchildren. She took them from their home to a new land for their future. Their parents could not leave the country for fear of reprisal. If the escape was not successful, they might lose their lives, honor, property, home and everything. Grandma was entrusted with the task of raising the grandchildren in a far away land. Even if she had to labor with minimum wage and menial work she wouldn't mind. Her only wish is to see her grandchildren have a good future.

The grandchildren are grown now but this image will never fade away. "Grandma and the child" are never alone, they are under the protection of Our Lady. Grandma would not hold on to the hardship - physical and mental- that she endured but she always remembers the miracle at sea that they were saved through the loving hands of Our Lady. Their images playa secondary role to the main image - Our Lady is holding the Child Jesus standing on top of the shrine.

Our Lady

Our Lady and the Child Jesus are not alone. She brings Christ to the world yesterday, today and always. Parishioners of this church will honor her and want her to be their Mother. They will want to keep her close in their hearts, their homes and their church.

Our Lady has her parents, Joachim and Ann. Elizabeth and Mary of Cleophas are her cousins50. She was married, her husband was Joseph, a carpenter51, she had her first Child and named Him Jesus52. She is full of grace53 and is blessed among women54. She is the Immaculate Virgin and was assumed into heaven after her mission on earth was completed. The Lord is with her55 and she always follows God's will56

50 Luke 1:39-45; John 19:25 51 Luke 1:27

52 Matthew 1:25; Luke 2:21

53 Luke 1:28

54 Luke 1:42

55 Luke 1:28

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In her youth, she lived a normal life but she was chosen to be the Mother of the Son of God. She lived on after Pentecost. Her appearance at that time perhaps showed the aging process through her white hair and wrinkled skin. She never lost her motherly, holy and graceful image. She was a virgin and mother, then a widow and Spiritual Mother to all the faithful. She knows and experiences life, and She wants to show her care for all God's children, especially women. She loves all members of the Body of Christ, her Son.

The New Testament mentions her in only a few places. The three most important moments were the Incarnation, the Passion and Pentecost.

In the Incarnation, the angel Gabriel greets her "Hail, full of grace!"57. This simple greeting contains all the mysteries of her life. Grace is her character and she is God's most favorite. "Full of Grace" is not her condition but her stainless person. God chose. her so that all women may follow her example.

In the Passion, she stood beneath the Cross58 to partake in the bitter cup of Her Son. According to John, the Cross of Christ and Golgotha are for the glory of God59. It is the time when "It is completed!"6O. When Christ saw Mary standing near the Cross, He placed her at the center of this mystery. She not only shared in the defeat and death of her Son but she also shared with Him in His glorious victory because she was nearer to Christ than anyone on earth61. Also at Golgotha she was given a new role, i.e. to be mother of John, mother of the Church and all believers. From now on the faithful come to her, rest on her lap, grasp her dress and ask her to teach them and care for them.

Our Lady was present in the mystery of Pentecost. After the Ascension of Christ the apostles were constantly devoting themselves to prayer, together with certain women, including Mary, the Mother of Jesus, as well as his "brothers" 62. Saint Luke mentioned her by name as the "Mother of Jesus" together with the names of the apostles. It was because Our Lady had an intimate relationship with the Holy Spirit that the Holy Spirit had never left her since the Annunciation63. It was the same Holy Spirit that came upon Mary and the apostles at Pentecost. The Apostle Creed expresses this belief with the statement, "I believe in Jesus Christ, his only Son, our Lord. He was conceived by the power of the Holy Spirit and born of the Virgin Mary." It was Mary and the Holy Spirit that brought Jesus Christ into the world, it was she who shared with Him in the suffering on the Cross, and it was she who became the Mother of the Church when the Church was born at Pentecost. After that moment her visible role was done and she remained hidden like the life of a cloistered nun; her life is hidden with

57 Luke 1:28

58 John 19:25

59 John 12:23-27; 17:1 60 John 19:30

61 Romans 8:17

62 Acts 1:14

63 Luke 1:35.

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Christ and in God64. In this moment she may not be seen but she is standing next to Jesus Christ, working with the Holy Spirit in order to intercede for the Church and nurture the members of the Body of Christ.

Mary is a model of living faith. She understood God's message but did not question God's way. And when the angel clarified God's intention with double affirmatives - she was ready to say "Yes" to God's wil165 because she trusted in the power of God.

Mary is also the model servant of God and of others. At Golgotha, she did not weep and wail in the way we mourn the dead. She just stood there next to the Cross. This act symbolized her Co-Redemptive role with her Son. She courageously and silently accepted God's will. Jesus' last word to John was, "Here is your mother." And from that hour the disciple took her into his own home"66. This is a brief description of her entire life. Hers was a life that depended totally on God and trusted in His will for her. She let God determine for her life from her youth until the end. She is the symbol of spiritual poverty, the necessary condition to be God's servant. She gave up her life for her Son and now for her Son's disciples and all mankind.

Mary is the model of a life of prayer. She did not heap up empty phrases67 but she prayed constantly with her whole life. She called on her Son for those in need and acted as she believed that the request will be accepted68. She waited on God and hoped that God would answer to her prayer69.

Many Vietnamese refugees came to Mother Mary before they ventured out for the unknown journey to freedom. They asked for help and she protected them. The request was answered, but do they come to her now in thanksgiving? Do they remember what they promised to her if their prayers were heard? By making Mary the Mother of this community, the Vietnamese remind themselves of her love and care for them.

Our Lady may stand here - above the boat or by the well, at Fatima, Medjugorje or even in our home. She wants God's children to repent, to fast, to pray, and to be reconciled with God and with one another. She wants us to share and to live in peace.

Our Lady brought her Jesus to the world two thousand years ago and she continues to be here today. She advises all believers to find her Son. Sometimes she publicly appears to remind individuals, communities, or the whole human

64 Colossians 3:3

65 Luke 1:36-38

66 John 19:27

67 Matthew 6:7

68 John 2:3

69 Isaiah 65:24

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race to return to God. At Golgotha she became the Mother of all believers and therefore she does not want anyone to be lost. In this Church she watches over her children. She is with them not only here, but also at home, at work and at play. This community believes that she is with them in all their prayers, protects them and keeps them in unity with her Son and with the Church. She is their loving and caring Mother.

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IV. THE CHURCH

IV.l The Square and Round Shapes

The church's foundation and the altar are square. The ceiling of the church has a round form. "Round" and "Square" represent Heaven and Earth, Father and Mother, Yin and Yang. Vietnamese tradition has a myth to convey their meaning, the story of two rice cakes - Banh Chung (square) and Banh Day (round).

Sometime ago in the pre-historic era of the Hong Bang Dynasty (2879-258 Be) King Hung Huy of the Van Lang nation, after defeating the "An" rebels, and restoring peace and order in his kingdom, wanted to transfer his power to his children. The dilemma, however, was to select the right person among his 20 sons. He summoned them and said: "He among you who will supply me with the best foodstuffs ever known thus far, as memorial offerings at our patriarchs' altar from now to the year's end, will get the throne."

All the princes went out in their diligent search for the most rare and exquisite food. They looked for them in the market places, up on the mountains and down by the sea, and brought back all kinds of savory edibles.

The ninth prince, Lang Lieu, lost his mother early in life and had no one to counsel with. He had a dream that an angel came to him saying: "Rice is the best among all the consumables. It is a staple food, people live on it and never get tired of it, and nothing can be compared to it. Use sweet rice and make a square cake to represent Earth, and a round one for Heaven, and fill the insides with delicious stuffing. These symbols embrace Heaven and Earth, attribute to the blessings of the gods which will entice them to bestow divine favors on the people. Do it and you will win the throne.”

Lang Lieu woke up and filled with joy, he said to himself: "1 must do what the angel instructed me./I For the square cakes, he selected the choicest rice, washed and drained it. He made special fillers, covered them with rice and used special waxed leaves (la dong) to wrap them. He cooked them and gave them the name Banh Chung. He also, cooked plain rice, pounded it fine and form it into round shape cakes to represent Heaven and call them Banh Day.

The competition day was. set and the king called his sons to present their findings. They all brought in a multitude of food except Lang Lieu who presented only the round and square cakes. The king was taken by surprise and

asks for an explanation. Lang Lieu answered as the angel had instructed. The king tasted the cakes and found them delicious and untiring, nothing else could be compared to these cakes. He applauded Lang Lieu and gave him the first place. At the New Year the king used the cakes for ceremonial offerings to the gods and served them to his parents. Common folk imitated this practice and

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made it a tradition until this day. They used his name and called it "The Lieu Peast". King Hung Huy gave Lang Lieu the throne.

Prince Lang Lieu was not the oldest, nor the king's favorite. The king was not a glutton because he had daily all the exquisite food he wanted. His decision to grant the throne to Lang Lieu highlights this fact - this prince mastered the application of essential tradition, culture and values into practice. He manifested his ability to govern the nation and to bring prosperity to the people with the nation's resources

Banh Day is the main gift among the offerings for God and the villages' deities. It is a firm, jellied, milky white round mass. It is a fitting gift for the Lord of Heaven and Earth and for people to recognize His superior power in governing the world from above. The local deities also share this honor for they are responsible for local tasks. After the ceremonial offering some cakes are left at the altar, while the rest are taken home to share with others. It is customary today to distribute these cakes as gifts as the sign of gratitude to God and the desire to share God's blessings with those around them. A Vietnamese proverb says, "God's blessings must not be exploited selfishly" .

Banh Chung is the special cake for Tet (New Year). Its square and straight lines properly display the package of the fruits from the Earth. The well-packed cake is like the fullness of a mother's love that nourishes her children. She cares for them from the time they are in the womb to the moment of her death. Whenever people eat this cake, especially at the New Year's festival, they reflect on their mother's love. The green color of the leaf is absorbed into the cake and gives it a yellowish color after it is cooked. This is the combination of green and yellow colors that represent life and its uncertainty. They celebrate life in the New Year, but they also know of the obscure future but wish for the best.

A good Banh Chung partially depends on the skillful hands of the maker for the look, but the determining factor is in its content. Vietnamese language uses the word "Nhan" for the inside. It's a play on word because "Nhan" also means a human person or the human race. As the inside is the combination of many ingredients such as bean, meat, fat, onion, sugar, cinnamon and anise, so is the make up of a society. Each individual contributes to the good of the society. If one plays one's role well, the society benefits; if one plays one's role badly, one ruins the taste of that Banh Chung, that is his or her social or family group. No one can stand alone outside of one's community.

The round and square of rice cakes are the rich symbols of life. Heaven and Earth, father and mother, Yin and Yang; they are life principles and the natural condition of things. When the two elements are harmonized the world is a better place, family life is harmonious and the society is at peace. The Square represents reason, righteousness, law, order, ethics and accepted norms. The Round means generosity, refrain from judgment, full of affection and compassion for all.

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Round- Square philosophy is the allegory of discernment for the way to live in a complex world. They remind people of certain principles and lessons in life. These are the lessons of ethics and etiquette expressed through symbols. They are not literally written on paper, but have the power to transmit profound knowledge; they are not carved in stone, but are found in the soul; not forced into the head, but touching the heart and transforming lives. Round-Square interacts with one another to bring harmony to life.

IV.2 The Curved Roof

The curves on the church's roof resemble the gentle, graceful and lively efforts to bring about harmony in the Vietnamese mind and their ways of life. The curves on the church's roof indicate the harmonious union between Round and Square, reason and feeling, mind and heart. Many Vietnamese scholars agree on this point.

In general, they all concur that these curves demonstrate the harmony between the Round and Square. The late Father Luong Kim Dinh and Father Vu Dinh Trac mentioned that the archeological findings of "Trong Dong" (The Copper Drum) of Dong Son reaffirmed the existence of these lines. Fathers Trac and Tran Cao Tuong attributed the origin of these curves to the Banh Day - Banh Chung folklore. Father Trac claimed that the curved roof had a Vietnamese origin thousands of years before the Common Era (BCE), in contrast with Japan's Nara Temple, dated 730 BCE; and Tang Dynasty Temples in China in 630 BCE. He added his comment that the Vietnamese form deliberately expressed the Vietnamese spirit through its gentle appearance in contrast to the rigid form of Japan and the inflexible shape of China. The Vietnamese form means that they are more ready to adapt and adjust to life than the others.

Father Tuong offered his special observation when he studied the Cathedral of Phat Diem. "There is a 'Phuong Dinh' that represents the village temple in the square shape standing in front of the church. This is the common meeting place and the Square represents the Earth. People come to church carrying with them all earthly concerns and they wish that their lives would be transcended and they would reach God Who is their ultimate happiness and perfection symbolized through the Round."

The curves on the roof of Our Lady of Vietnam Church embrace these traditional meanings and more than that. They resemble the flying Phuong-Hoang's wings. Phuong-Hoang (Phoenix) is an Oriental legendary bird, one of the Four Totemic Animals (dragon, wolf, turtle, and phoenix). Phuong-Hoang is the most superior bird with mystical power. Phuong is the male and Hoang the female. They reflect the state of happiness and harmony in family life because they only make their home where there is peace; if not, they would hide away where no one could find them. Americans may feel affinity to this symbol with the eagle in their culture.

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IV.3 The Egg

There is an "Egg" on top of the church. There are two hands holding the "Egg" to represent Our Lady's or God's hands caring for the Vietnam Nation. The "Egg" is the myth of the origin of Vietnam. It is the fruit of the union between Lac Long Quan and Au Co - the Dragon and the Nymph - the "founders" of Vietnamese nation and people. Au Co gave birth to an egg and it developed into one hundred human beings that became the Vietnamese people. This story is definitely not an historical account, but it has profound implications.

In the Vietnamese mind, the egg is round and it is the symbol of God and. His perfect love. It is also a new life in natural order of things. Every living being originates from God and is in God but also through the natural process of a union between the male and female. God intended this way when he created the world. The male-female, Yin-Yang, body-soul, father-mother and matter-spirit are to be united and made harmonious in order to bring out balance and peace.

As a nation, the egg signifies the unity of Vietnamese people. They may be mountaineers of various tribes, or people in the plains, rich or poor, and North, South or Central Highland folk, but they are one nation and have one origin. This folklore indicates the kind of history Vietnam has been proud of since ancient times: a united multi-ethnic group.

As a family, the egg highlights the importance of children and the parenting roles. The traditional roles of father and mother are not limited to economic needs but also emphasize the nurturing and care that parents give to their children. They want them to become successful and they are always ready to protect and care for them as long as they live. They sacrifice themselves for the children's future to the point that divorce or separation is not an option. A Vietnamese Proverb says "Like a house that needs a roof so children need their father. II Numerous Vietnamese songs praise the mother and her love.

The Dragon-Nymph folklore presents the ideal father-mother images and does not intend to "make anyone inferior to anyone else. The Dragon in Oriental mythology is an omnipotent being that has the power of God. It draws water from the ocean, makes rain and waters the earth. It has the power to bless people and to destroy them (good vs. bad weather) and a nation that heavily relies on agriculture and the fishing industry truly wants to make the Dragon its chief totem. The Dragon is also a fierce animal which will fight to its death if its freedom is restricted. The Ly's Revolt, led by Ly Cong Van against Chinese oppression, successfully used this symbol and won victory in 1010 BCE. He moved the capital from Dai La to a new location and gave it the name Thang Long (Flying Dragon) which is the Hanoi of today. The Dragon became the symbol of hope, luck, courage and human dignity. The expression, "When the Dragon rides on the cloud, patriots exercise their initiatives," has been used to call for nationalistic sentiment among their men throughout history in times of war and conflict.

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The folklore said that when Au Co was born in Lang Suong cavern, all flowers in that region perfumed. Being a Tien (nymph) she is the ideal woman that represents beauty and happiness. Tien is pure, faultless, uncontaminated and innocent. Vietnamese people use the expression "Beautiful or happy as Tien" to describe their high state of life satisfaction. Life as Tien's is a blissful state, living in the midst of nature, enjoying the whispers of the winds, the singing of birds, and everything is in harmony with everyone else. Tien's heart is philanthropic, benevolent and full of love; she is always ready to help people in need. Where there is Tien, that place becomes the Garden of Eden.

The Vietnamese people proudly claim their heavenly ancestral heritage through their Dragon-Nymph (Rong- Tien) folklore. This union represents an ideal life for a family, a community and the whole world.

IV.4 The Map of Vietnam

There is a map of Vietnam on the Egg. The light shines on it day and night to remind the Vietnamese that they must keep their lights shining. They are grateful that America has welcomed them, and given them "a home. It is their duty to preserve their good reputation, to bring honor to their former ancestors, and to tell the world the true reason why the Vietnamese are present here.

They escaped from an atheistic regime. They do not want to be trapped in a materialistic world now. The Vietnamese do not forget their proverbs, "Better name than good clothes... Being hungry but always clean; being poor but never losing dignity... Better to die with honor than to live in disgrace..." and they may struggle to make a "living but continue to uphold their traditional values. Their freedom now is real; not on meaningless paper as with their former government. The American Constitution and Laws are standard now, and are not selectively applied as in their past. They successfully escaped from an oppressive government that systematically and covertly persecuted them in the past; they will not lose their faith now.

Their faith has been supported by a great tradition: their forefathers believed in God and the immortality of the souls; 117 of their heroic martyrs were made Saints. They must keep this animating force alive. They must seek the truth because their former state controlled them through false doctrine and by force. The truth will set you free!70 The Truth is in God's word and His Law of love is the guide71. A Vietnamese maxim has this saying: "Brother Squash, please don't forget me, the Zucchini; though we are different we are on the same trellis."

70 John 8:32

71 John 13:34-35

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All the time-honored practices - ethics and values of the Vietnamese culture ­must be maintained and passed on to the next generations. They must not become lost in America because they have had a long four thousand years of civilization as their heritage. The Vietnamese people living in this new era of cross-cultural influence must preserve their beauties and learn what is good in the new culture without losing the old so as to make a successful merge and then beautifully emerge and rise with the New Millennium. We all wish that!

IV.5 The Cross

The Cross is the symbol of Christ's suffering, death and resurrection. It is the sign of God's love for each and every one. Our Lord Jesus has borne our infirmities, carried our sicknesses and diseases72; He took up the Cross and was crucified and died on the Cross73. The Cross of Christ is not only something of the past as an historical event but is still real today. He did it for each and everyone of us today, tomorrow and to the end of time.

Everyone has his own cross; it is our human condition. There is a saying: "Life is a sea of sorrows". This is but a realistic acknowledgment of a truth in life. We have our family struggles and they may be economic, spiritual, in interpersonal relationships and responsibilities. Our personal lives also go through the pain of growing up, our labor, and our search for an identity and meaning of life. Our society has many vivid reminders of the presence of sickness, disease, crime and various injustices. The Vietnamese understand well the meaning of the Cross because they experienced it through the war, in the post war re-educational camps and new economic zones, and in their making a living. Despite all these hardships they continue to uphold the Cross.

The Vietnamese Catholics, like all other Christians, believe that Cross of Christ brought victory. There is no resurrection without the Cross. Saint Luke reaffirmed us: "Was it not necessary that the Messiah should suffer these things and then enter into his glory?"74. Saint John also hinted several times the reminders of Christ: "When you have lifted up the Son of Man, then you will realize that I am he..."75, and "1, when I am lifted up from the earth, will draw all people to myself"76.

Catholics see that the Cross has two dimensions. The vertical line unites man with God and the horizontal one unites us with one another through the embrace of Christ on the Cross. The Cross is for them a sign of reconciliation, unity and solidarity of the human race. The writings of Saint Paul manifested this wish and dream in this new environment: "May I never boast of anything except the

72 Isaiah 53:4; Matthew 8:16-18; John 1:29

73 Matthew 27:32-50; Mark 15:21-37; Luke 23:26-46; John 19:17-30

74 Luke 24:26, 46

75 John '8:27

76 John 12:23

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cross of our Lord Jesus Christ... for I carry the marks of Jesus branded on my body"77. He might reconcile both groups to God in one body through the cross, thus putting to death that hostility through it" 78. They see that Christ is still carrying the cross with them and they want to unite theirs with Christ's. The Cross is their present struggle, their hope for the future and their promise of eternal life. They want to follow Christ as they lift the Cross on high.

IV.6 Four Doors

Besides the Triple Gateway at the entrance as mentioned before, there are three other doors - one on each side of the church. These four doors represent time and seasons: year-month-day-hour, and Spring-Summer-Fall-Winter. Time and seasons follow one another. Things change and events take place. Man wants to control time, but God is the One in charge. The Vietnamese people understand well this expression, "Man proposes and God disposes". Christ has said: "therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or what you will drink, or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothing?"79, and they take his words to heart. Their for_fathers also taught them this lesson in the saying: "Tough times won't last; fortune shall come in due time." It carries the same meaning with the quote we have in modern time: "Tough times won't last; tough people do!" Consequently, they continue to demonstrate this work ethic wherever they are.

The earth also has four directions: East-West-North-South. The Four Doors of the church also face these four directions with the main entrance facing the East to receive new life from the rising of the sun. These doors also remind them that God's people will come to Him from the Four Corners of the Earth. They come from all walks of life and claim the One and True God. The Vietnamese language has this expression: "From four oceans we become brothers and sisters." This saying manifests their desire to rise above the barriers of ethnic differences and promote unity. All God's people are welcomed here.

The number four has many meanings in biblical language. Figuratively speaking, this number has a plural sense. The first example was the forty days of the Great Flood. The second was the journey of the Israelites in the desert. The third instance was when Jesus entered the desert for forty days. And the forth incidence occurred when Jesus stayed with His disciples for forty days from His Resurrection to the Ascension. In the context of this book, only the last three incidences are mentioned.

First, God's people, under the leadership of Moses, traveled for a long time (40 years) in the wilderness. God tested them in many ways during this journey. They rebelled by making the Golden Calf, and God gave them the Ten

77 Galatians 8:14-18

78 Ephesians 2:16

79 Matthew 6:25

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Commandments. They were dying from hunger and thirst and God gave them Manna from heaven and water from the rock; serpents bit them and God came to their rescue. Through all these trials and tribulations God was always with them Wltil they reached the Promised Land. This is also the symbol of the Church in her earthly pilgrimage before reaching heaven. Here on earth, all believers are pilgrims and fellow travelers with one another. They, as individuals or a community, may struggle in their journey of faith. The time may be long but they shall reach their ultimate destination, which is heaven, if they journey with God.

Second, Jesus entered the desert for forty days before He began His public ministry80. During this time He fasted, prayed, was tempted and prevailed. God's people experience life in the same way when they want to seek God's will for them. Their discernment for a meaningful life may also require them to go through many ups and downs before they find the way.

Furthermore, as Jesus spent a notably long time (40 days) to give His disciples the last lessons before he left them in the Ascension, the same way may apply to those who want to be His disciples. They must open their eyes to look for His presence when they come to church, listen to His teachings, pray and fast, and ask Him to stay with them.

They come to church through these four doors and with these ideas in mind. They come as Jesus once said, "Come to me, all you who are weary and are carrying heavy burdens, and I will give you rest"81. Through these four doors Jesus calls them to come to Him, to church, to God's family, to be with one another and with God. Come to Me, come my children, these doors are open!

IV.7 Five Steps

The Five Steps, in Oriental philosophy, are the Five Virtues (or Norms) of being human, which are: Humanity, Duty, Cordiality, Understanding and Faithfulness. These virtues are required for anyone who wants to be a saint, but one must be human first. When a person goes to church, he or she also must examine his or her conduct in life. These virtues or norms have been the perpetual guiding light for the Vietnamese even after the arrival of Christianity.

"Humanity" is translated from the word "NHAN" that means man, a hum